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113Collegegirl1 September 5, 2010 at 7:12 pm
I don’t think college-aged women frequent clubs just to meet guys though. After a hard week’s of work, it’s fun to go out, listen to great music, dance, and have a good time. We ALL want a good guy who treats us well but unfortunately many girls just want immediate satisfaction by hooking up and then wondering why the guy wasn’t nice to them afterwards.

Question, though–in order to meet a guy more on my level, my cousin says that I should go for Older guys. But the thing is, if a girl is sexually inexperienced, wouldn’t an older guy NOT be on their level?? What are girls to do when all the guys in college are their age and they only want to hook up? Of course the girl wants the guy to like her..so many times she does it even if it wasn’t her plan to begin with.

So do you think girls should just wait a couple years to meet a guy or do betas actually look for something MORE than sex? All guys want sex…

ALSO..I’ve been talking to guys lately in relationships and they said that only time relationships in college start is when the guy has sex with you first and realizes he doesn’t want to be with anyone else. Is this true?? Because…I can’t do that. I have to trust a guy is willing to commit FIRST, not the other way around.

114Susan Walsh September 5, 2010 at 7:13 pm
Obsidian,

Not exactly sure what this “nonsense” refers to. Not wanting PUAs? I consider PUAs a tiny fraction of guys using Game, and I’ve only ever heard personally of two women who dated PUAs – with disastrous results, I might add.
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Guys now want to keep their options open for as long as possible, and are ONLY interested in getting the bang.
Do you speak for all men? I thought there was actually an array of preferences wrt STRs vs. LTRs. Certainly many guys on this blog are interested in getting more than the bang.
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Women aren’t derided by wanting to explore their independence and options, and that includes sexual.
Oh yes, they are. They’re labeled sluts as soon as they have casual sex – I’ve defended the right of men to exercise their preferences in the SMP, including eliminating sexually experienced women from consideration for a relationship. Derision for women who explore their sexual options is the most common response men have, in my experience, and that includes the players.